[HELP] I got scammed on Fiverr

I paid a top rated seller £200 to upgrade my site, he took my money and didn’t deliver. I’ve never used Fiverr before and didn’t know there was a payment system on the actual site ( I know I’m an idiot). He seller asked me to contact him via whats app and I made the payment on remitly. Revolut declined my request for a refund. I’m waiting in remitlys response. Any tips on how I should handle this please? I already feel really badly about what I’ve done so please, I don’t need anyone kicking me when I’m down, solutions only please. Thank you