Where the hell are the righteous cultivators?

It's like every other cultivator gets called a pussy if they don't go out and slaughter their enemies family to the last babe. Demonic cultivation may be an interesting path to visit and stealing and killing may be necessary in the name of survival. I must confess I don't have the stomach to follow the scriptures of a "righteous" cultivator if their actions cannot be distinguished from a demonic one.