Dx with RRMS

Hi - I don’t even know where to start, all of this feels so overwhelming. I was diagnosed with RRMS yesterday after having 2 MRIs which showed lesions.

The first MRI was of my brain, and the neurologist I saw initially stated that she did not believe the lesions to be related to MS due to the locations of the lesions. Then I had a second MRI which showed lesions in my cervical spine, so she diagnosed me with RRMS.

She wanted me to do a lumbar puncture, but I do not feel safe doing so as I am in the process of either confirming or ruling out an EDS dx, and LPs can have big complications if I do have EDS.

I plan to seek a second opinion (as recommended by my PCP) but also would feel safer starting DMT and end up not needing it if this isn’t MS rather than waiting and ending up progressing if it is.

With all that said… how the hell am I supposed to make a decision on which DMT to start? The neuro mentioned something about a once a month injection or oral meds being my best options. Any advice would be super helpful, TIA